Bikin Ma'aikatan Yin Jima'i
Ya kasance wata mai wahala a cikin Amurka don masu yin jima'i. A cikin Fabrairu na rubuta game da asusun Stormy Daniels na lalata mara kyau tare da Donald Trump. Yanzu tana makale da shugaban Amurka, yayin da kowane labari a Amurka yana murna da “tauraruwar batsa” kamar suna cewa “leakage leakage.”
Idan mutane wanene yi tare da jikinsu ana ta zubewa, yaya yafi muni a cikin mutum masu yin jima'i suna da shi? Wata kuma "Na yi lalata da Donald", 'yar wasan Playboy, Karen McDougal, ba ta rasa damar da za ta busa wa duniya karuwancinta ba. Ga ta a kan CNN's Anderson Cooper 360 °:
McDougal: "Bayan mun shaku da juna, sai ya yi kokarin biya ni, kuma a gaskiya ban san yadda zan dauki hakan ba…"
Cooper: "Shin da gaske ya gwada ya ba ka kuɗi?"
McDougal: “Ya aikata hakan… amma na dube shi sai na ce 'Wannan ba ni ba ne, ni ba irin wannan yarinyar ba ce.'
Da gaske yanzu? Zan iya fahimtar son shawo kan wani yanayi mara dadi, amma wata tsohuwar Abokiyar wasa tana gaya ma duk wata mai yin lalata da ita a Amurka cewa ba 'yar su bace " ta kawai cire mata kayanta don kuɗi, amma ba kuɗi don biya ba? Gaskiya aji! Hanyar jefa 'yan uwanku mata a ƙarƙashin motar!
Kamar dai wannan bai isa ba, muna da sabbin dokoki a Amurka, waɗanda ake tsammani an tsara su don hana fataucin mata, waɗanda a haƙiƙanin gaskiya ana yin su ne don sa rayuwar ƙwararru ta masu zaman kansu masu zaman kansu baƙin ciki, haɗari, da kaɗaici. Cikakkun bayanan sun wuce karfin wannan gajeren rubutun na yanar gizo. Tasirin, kodayake, shine sanya masu samar da intanet a cikin Amurka alhakin idan suka bar masu yin jima'i suyi amfani da dandamali. Akwai babbar matsalar mayar da martani da aka riga aka fara. Craigslist ya kawar da duk abubuwan da yake so, Microsoft yana yin bincike Skype, Yankunan tattaunawa game da aikin jima'i akan Reddit sun tafi, Google Drive ya kasance yana yin bincike tare da share bidiyo masu kyau. Wannan kawai farko na dogon jerin.
Don haka wannan shafin yanar gizon shine bikin mai zaman kanta mai yin jima'i. Masu yin jima'i a matsayin 'yan kasuwa masu aiki tuƙuru, suna da ilimi sosai a kafofin watsa labarun, ƙwararru ne wajen tallata intanet, kuma suna da kyau da mutane. Da yawa suna sanya kansu ta hanyar karatun boko, suna guje wa rancen ɗalibai ta hanyar yin jima'i.
A cikin karni lokacin da matasa ke aiki a cikin "ayyukan murabba'i" ana iya lalata su ta hanyar bashi kuma a ɗaure su da ƙananan yara, aikin jima'i yana 'yantar da mutane da yawa yin tafiya, yin aiki daga gidajensu, da saita lokutan nasu.
Ba za a iya samun karuwai na doka da yawa kamar yadda suke a dā ba, amma har yanzu rundunar mata masu ƙwarewa suna aiki tukuru a harabar lasisin Nevada. Masu gwagwarmayar masu yin jima'i sun nuna, duk da cewa, tsarin da aka tsara bisa doka amma mai karfin gaske a sakamakon akwai kyakkyawar manufa. Madadin haka, masu gwagwarmaya ba tare da gajiyawa ba suna inganta yanke hukunci daidai, don lafiya da amincin kowa da ke ciki. Babban haɗari ga yawancin masu yin lalata shine haɗarin kamawa da tashin hankali daga thean sanda. Ikon yin aiki tare a wurare masu aminci, da daukar ma'aikata manaja da na tsaro, zai zama babbar fa'ida ga mutane a cikin kasuwancin. Yin aiki akan titi da cikin gidajen karuwai ba bisa ƙa'ida ba yafi hatsari, kuma babu fa'ida ga kowa!
A Majalisa da kuma a cikin 'yan jarida, masu yin jima'i suna cikin wani mawuyacin lokaci a yanzu haka a Amurka. Idan kai ba abokin ciniki bane ko dan gwagwarmaya, da alama baka da yawa da zaka iya yi don taimakawa. Amma aƙalla, koyaushe kuna iya zama mai mutuntawa da tallafawa. Ina baku tabbacin cewa masu yin jima'i a kasarmu zasu yaba da hakan!
